Making the decision for a loved one with dementia to access further support including residential care is never easy. It is often a complex decision that involves many factors, including the person’s needs, the supporting family or friend’s capacity to provide care, and the availability of suitable care options.
Here at Ambridge Rose, we’re experienced in dementia care, and have outlined some of the key considerations to help you make an informed decision about dementia care.
Understanding dementia progression
Dementia is a progressive condition, and its symptoms typically deteriorate over time. As the condition progresses, people with dementia may experience difficulty with:
- Memory loss
- Thinking and reasoning
- Language skills
- Judgement
- Daily living activities
The rate dementia progresses varies from person to person, but eventually, most people with dementia will need some level of care and support.
Factors to consider for dementia care
When deciding whether it’s time for a loved one to move into a care home, we recommend considering the following factors:
- The person’s needs: As dementia progresses, a higher level of care than you can provide at home may be required. This could include help with activities of daily living such as bathing, dressing, and eating, as well as medication management and supervision.
- Capacity to provide care: Caring for someone with dementia can be physically and emotionally challenging, so if you find you are struggling to cope, it may be time to consider other support options.
- Availability of suitable care options: There are many different types of dementia care homes, each with its own approach. It’s important to research your options and find a care home that meets your loved one’s needs and preferences.
- The person’s wishes: If your loved one is still able to express their wishes, it’s important to involve them in the decision-making process.
Signs that it may be time for a dementia care home
Along with the above factors, there are several personal signs that it may be time to consider a care home for your loved one.
- Increased safety concerns: If your loved one is becoming increasingly unsafe, such as wandering off or forgetting to turn off the stove, a care home may be a safer environment.
- Difficulty managing daily activities: As dementia progresses, people may have difficulty with basic tasks such as eating, bathing, and dressing. A dementia care home can provide the necessary support and supervision for more comfortable living.
- Behavioural changes: Dementia can cause changes in behaviour, such as aggression, agitation, or increased confusion and restlessness at night. A dementia care home can provide a structured environment and specialised care to help manage these behaviours.
- Impact on your own wellbeing: Caregiving can be stressful and can take a toll on your physical and emotional health. If you are caring for a loved one living with dementia and find you are feeling increasingly overwhelmed, it’s important to seek support and consider other options.
Transitioning into a dementia care home
Moving a loved one into a dementia care home can be a difficult and emotional experience. Here are some tips to help make the transition as smooth as possible:
- Involvement in the decision-making process: If possible, talk to your loved one about your decision and involve them in the process of choosing a dementia care home.
- Choosing a home that meets your loved one’s needs: Consider factors such as location, environment, and amenities.
- Visit the care home before making a decision: Spend time at the care homes and talk to the staff and residents to get an understanding of the environment. It’s a good idea to ask questions and find out as much information as you can.
- Prepare your loved one for the move: If possible, talk to your loved one about the move and explain why it’s necessary.
- Help your loved one settle in: Visit your loved one and bring familiar items from home to help them feel more comfortable. At Ambridge Rose, our residents often bring small sentimental knick-knacks that help create a home environment.
Dementia care homes at Ambridge Rose
At Ambridge Rose, we offer dedicated dementia care facilities in East Auckland, The Beach House, The Cottage and The Villa. Each facility is fully equipped with a qualified healthcare team to support people living with any level of dementia, including providing dementia-friendly grounds, and offering diversional therapy activities designed to support cognitive function to enhance resident’s minds, bodies and spirits.
Learn more about Ambridge Rose’s care homes:
Additional resources
If you are considering moving a loved one into a dementia care home, there are a number of helpful resources available that can help you make an informed decision:
The decision to move a loved one into a care home is never easy. However, it’s important to remember that you are not alone. There are many resources and support services available to help you make an informed decision and support your loved one during this transition.